When you ask for all the doors to be closed for the right one, do not get angry when the doors you want to stay open are closed anyway.
You might not understand why someone is treating you relatively poorly while you are trying to reach out, but if you love this person, try to imagine what he/she is going through. Must be a tough situation for them if you’re not trusted or if questions like “what’s wrong?” are not easy to respond to. Focus on the other person. Some people just need you to back off and pray for them. If you love and trust God, and love this other person, do it. Learn that your way is not always the right (or selfless) way. Learn loving, humble submission. Weak people cannot. Are you too weak to put your feelings (pride, frustration) down for someone else? Watch your tongue. At the very least, do not respond with defensiveness. Seriously, sometimes you just can’t solve everything, only God can. You can pray, though.
And please stop with selfish ambitions. Please. What happened to being 200% genuine? Take your work and the people you serve seriously.